Frame
Ask a neutral, clear, and genuinely debatable question.
Don't believe your lying eyes.
Create a private space, invite everyone concerned, and build a fuller view of the question together.
One private conversation, structured end to end
Ask a neutral, clear, and genuinely debatable question.
Share a private link with everyone you want to bring into the conversation.
Add arguments on both sides and the sources that support them.
Comment on each argument without losing the thread.